Tag: Self Improvement

Life, Motivation

You don’t have to stay

Anthony Dixon

Here are excerpts from my Book that’s on the Drawing board, titled, ” You don’t have to stay”

Chapter 3: Love’s Second Chances. The heart has a way of leading us down unexpected paths, sometimes weaving intricate stories that challenge societal norms and preconceived notions. In this chapter, we delve into the transformative power of second chances in love and relationships. Rebounding Hearts. Life has a remarkable ability to surprise us, and often, the greatest surprises come from the most unlikely sources. Our journey took a twist when love found its way into my life during the aftermath of a broken relationship. The heartache of lost love had left wounds, yet in the midst of that pain, a new chapter was written. This unconventional beginning is a testament to the resilience of the human heart – it is capable of healing and flourishing even amidst adversity.

Shattered Stigma Society has a way of imposing standards and expectations on matters of the heart. Second chances are often met with skepticism, viewed as a sign of weakness or desperation. The stigma attached to rekindling a romance or finding love after heartbreak is palpable, yet it’s essential to challenge such preconceptions. The narrative unveils the underlying biases that underscore this stigma, encouraging readers to question why a renewed chance at love should be dismissed. The Metaphor of “Second-Hand Shoes” An evocative metaphor emerges as the narrative navigates the terrain of second chances. Just as society warns against second-hand shoes due to wear and tear, there’s an inclination to apply the same principle to relationships. But isn’t love more complex than a worn-out sole? Relationships are intricate, and the scars of past experiences can add depth and character to new connections. The chapter invites readers to reconsider the metaphor, acknowledging that while shoes may wear out, love has the capacity to mend and renew. Embracing Vulnerabilities. The essence of this chapter lies in the empowerment that arises from embracing one’s vulnerabilities. Opening up to love after heartbreak requires a profound courage – a willingness to expose one’s scars and let someone else into the sacred space of the heart. The narrative celebrates this courage, emphasizing that vulnerability is not synonymous with weakness, but rather a testament to strength. It takes strength to offer a second chance, to forgive, and to hope for something better.

The Beauty of Unexpected Love. Love’s second chances are laden with beauty and promise. This chapter illustrates the allure of finding love in unexpected places, where the heart defies logic and societal norms. It’s in the uncharted territories of second chances that authenticity often flourishes. The narrative unfolds a tale of love that blossomed from the ashes of a past relationship, demonstrating that the heart has an uncanny ability to discern authenticity amidst the chaos. A Celebration of Resilience. In a world that often champions the idea of instant gratification and fleeting connections, the narrative champions resilience and commitment. Second chances are not just about restarting relationships, but about reaffirming the capacity of the human heart to heal, to grow, and to love again. It’s a celebration of the courage to give love another chance, despite the odds. In the tapestry of love’s journey, the chapter “Love’s Second Chances” stands as a vivid thread that weaves together the complexities, uncertainties, and triumphs of the heart. It invites readers to embrace the unexpected, to challenge societal norms, and to see the profound beauty in allowing love to take root once more. This chapter serves as an ode to the strength of the heart and the resilience of the human spirit – a reminder that love’s second chances are not merely opportunities for romance, but an affirmation of the transformative power of the human experience.

Ambition, America, Life, Motivation, Parenting And Relationships, Religion

Book Bio

Anthony Dixon


Through her Eyes/ revised edition

Book Bio:

“In the Shadows of Hate: A Journey of Love and Redemption”It is an extraordinary tale that delves deep into the realms of human emotions, exploring the eternal struggle between love and hate. Set in a world consumed by animosity and darkness, this poignant story follows the transformative journey of one man as he navigates through the tumultuous landscapes of prejudice and discrimination, ultimately discovering the redemptive power of love. In this gripping narrative, the author skillfully weaves a tapestry of raw emotions, unveiling the destructive consequences of hatred and the transformative potential of love. Through vivid and evocative storytelling, the book illuminates the profound need for love, understanding, empathy, and inclusion in our fractured society. At its core, “In the Shadows of Hate” is a thought-provoking exploration of the human condition, encouraging readers to see life through the eyes of others. It challenges the reader to suspend judgment, to look beyond appearances and stereotypes, and to embrace the complexity and richness of diverse experiences. The story serves as a poignant reminder that true understanding and compassion can only be achieved by walking a mile in another person’s shoes. With each chapter, the author draws readers deeper into the protagonist’s world, painting a vivid portrait of the internal struggles he faces as he confronts the relentless waves of hate that threaten to engulf him. As the story unfolds, readers witness the power of love as it gradually erodes the barriers of prejudice and bigotry, illuminating a path towards healing and reconciliation. Through the use of compelling characters and gripping plot twists, the author exposes the devastating impact of hate on individuals and communities, leaving no room for complacency or indifference. In the face of adversity, the protagonist’s journey becomes a beacon of hope, demonstrating the resilience of the human spirit and the potential for love to conquer even the darkest corners of our world. “In the Shadows of Hate: A Journey of Love and Redemption” is a profound and deeply moving exploration of the human capacity for both good and evil. It challenges readers to examine their own beliefs and biases, encouraging introspection and fostering a greater sense of empathy and understanding. By shining a spotlight on the universal need for love and the transformative power it holds, this book offers a compelling testament to the enduring triumph of the human spirit.

Excerpts

Addressing racism requires a collective effort and a commitment to change. It involves acknowledging the existence of systemic racism, understanding its historical and ongoing impact, and working towards dismantling discriminatory policies and practices. Education, open conversations, and promoting diversity and inclusion are crucial steps in this process.Racism is a global issue that requires global solutions. While progress has been made in some areas, it’s clear that there is still much work to be done. By striving for equality and justice, advocating for the rights of marginalized communities, and fostering a society that values diversity, we can move closer to Dr. King’s dream and create a more inclusive and harmonious world, like John Lennon said, “Imagine”. We will expand on this thought later, but for now we will continue with our Introduction. My name is Anthony Dixon,

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Soon to be Published
To all you aspiring Authors, your Book Bio is the most important thing that you can do for a Book.

Life, Motivation

It doesn’t matter

Anthony Dixon

It doesn’t matter

When I worked in Construction we had a saying about dealing with the hard work. ” It’s all mind over Matter, If you’ve got no mind, it don’t matter. That my friend is the Motivation for this Blog, having a mind of your own and not following the mass. When I was fourteen years old, while doing the Laundry Mother found a big Bag of Marijuana in my pocket. Being the most Diplomatic person, she said nothing of her find for Days. Then one day she asked me how do I want to live my life. ” Do you want to be a Shepherd or a Sheep?” She continued, I found your Weed and I flushed it down the toilet. Is this what you want to do? I snapped, everybody smoke Weed, which was true in the sixties. Knowing that I was in the wrong, I kept quiet and listened to the rest of the chastising. She continued, ” If everyone jumped off the George Washington Bridge, are you going to jump also. That was my first Lesson about Individuality. Being your own Man. Mother was a hard working single Mom. She was a progressive Blue Collar worker, she worked in a Professional Kitchen before many women, when the Industry was Male dominated. Seventy years before Julia Child and Pioneer Woman.

Years earlier we were Dirt Poor, because of her Health she could not maintain a job. There was a time when my Brother and I had two sets of Clothing, one on our backs, the other in the wash. That’s how she kept us looking pristine in Parochial School. Everyone thought we came from a well to do Family. If there was a hole in our Khaki pants, she would patch the hole and they would become clothes to play in. Back in the day, Clarence Carter had a song called Patches, the Song was about growing up Dirt Poor. As a result of being so Damned poor in earlier years. Three months from my fifteenth Birthday, I got my first job, packing Groceries for Associated Supermarket. From there on I was never out of work, Poverty scares me. I worked all through High School and brought Money home to support the Household. Everyone in the School thought that I was a Drug Dealer because of the way I Dressed. Since H.S. Fashion has been a big part of my Persona.

Sometimes I think that the years of not having Clothes is the reason. The only Books other than Textbooks I read was G.Q. and anything dealing with Fashion and Social Grooming. I was so fashionable inclined, my Graduation Gift to the Class was a Fashion Show that Orchestrated. I staged it and Modeled some Clothes that I Designed and fabricated. My gift with a Needle and Thread came from my mother and my Cousin who she helped in training her to be a great Seamstress and Designer who made Clothes for Jackie O. and other famous people.

The Fashion Show was a Smash, we invited Smokie Robinson and he showed up and performed on our Stage. That Shindig was the biggest party that I ever threw in my entire life. Many of the people in the Show went on to study at the Fashion Institute Technology, So I ask you? Is there anyone else who is more capable of being Critical of Today’s Fashion? Wearing your Pants showing your Ass-Crack, Holes in your Jeans and Leggings showing all your goodies is Lame. Some Dumb-ass Fashion Designer who Went to The Fashion Institute who have never been Poor decides to make fun of Poverty with tattered Jeans and the world of Sheep makes him Rich. Wearing Clothes with Holes in them, is making fun of Poverty. Wearing your Pants below your Ass crack is a Fashion that was Started in Prisons by Cellblock Whores, advertising their availability. Leggings is supposed to be an understatement. Once again, it’s all Mind over Matter, If you’ve got no Mind, it don’t matter. Be a Shepherd, not a Sheep. I can not end this Blog without addressing another disgusting trend, putting your kids in the same Shopping Cart where I put my Food is nasty. Sanitary practices are more important than lame Fashion trends. I have not posted in a long time, I have been busy with restructuring my Book and relocating to South Carolina. Those who follow my Blogs knows that I like to speak my mind and keep it short and sweet, Fin.

P.S.
We are not looking for Tuna that taste good, we are looking for Fashion with good taste.

America, Motivation

Human Kindness

Anthony Dixon

Human Kindness

I have not posted anything in a while, I’ve been busy overhauling my first Book, ” Through her Eyes” so that I can publish the second Edition in a Professional manner. I was getting Leary about the Subject Matter I chose, Racism. In the Book I focused on the Problem of Racism in America. Then I learned yesterday that the Problem goes beyond the Proverbial Pond, and is alive and well in the rest of this Cesspool we call Earth. Growing up in the Seventies I became a Staunch anti-War Advocate. The fact that America was in Vietnam fighting an Illegal War and had just survived a Nuclear Confrontation with Russia. I have always had a bad taste in my Mouth for Communism, where Creativity is discouraged. So naturally I have been anti-Russia for a long time. A Friend of mine Vacationed in Russia two years ago. When he told me that there were Black People in Russia, I Thought that was cool and that the World, except America, was resigned to the fact that Black People have a Right to live also. Considering that we’ve been here a long time, enough to have had Great Empires, and was self-automated, until the Supremacists of Europe Dismantled Africa. It’s six Hundred years later and they are still giving us Hell. Now the Medusa has raised her Head and Bad Heart in The Ukraine. Here are Excerpts from the New York Times..
Africans who had been living in Ukraine say they were stuck for days at crossings into neighboring European Union countries, huddling in the cold without food or shelter, held up by Ukrainian authorities who pushed them to the ends of long lines and even beat them, while letting Ukrainians through. Now I ask you, ” How’s that for living in the past, present and future” That is where we are in Race Relations, World wide. One step forward, two steps backwards.

I have always known that choosing this Topic for my Book was of it’s Time. I grew up in the Hippies Culture, so I Hate no one. But after Observing this inherited and Transcendence of this Culture of Hate for fifty five years. This has made me a Flag bearer for Inequality, and been a Victim many times. Haters need to wake up and realize that no matter what their preoccupation for hating Black People are. Change must and will come, Peacefully or Painstakingly. In nineteen seventy two, I told my friends that one Day, Buildings would fall in America, as they did in Palestine. They did not believe me, they said that it would be isolated to the Middle East. Let’s not forget that it was Human Rights Issues that brought the West Bank to Extremism. Then came Tim McVeigh and the Social security Building in Oklahoma, then the World Trade Center. In my Book, I stated that the Environment in America after Trump Supporters Defecated in and on the Capitol, was a Magnet for Radicalism on both sides of the Fence. Haters need to realize that there is just so much that even a Monk can take before he lashes back. In the Seventies America felt safe from Extremism. Today Extremism is on the rise on both sides. Three years ago a young Black Man returned from a Tour of Duty in Afghanistan to find that nothing had changed. With the sentiment that “It don’t make no matter” He armed himself, took up a Vantage point in a Garage, four Stories up. In the end five Cops killed, he was blown up with a Robot Bomb. In the Book I stated that he was a Jihadist. How many more of them are you creating with what Ukraine did to helpless People seeking Human Kindness?

One of the People who motivated me writing the Book. He once beat one of my Coworkers for calling me a Nigger. I was on a different job but he did my Battle for me.

We’ve been around for a long time

Here are Excerpts from my Book..

Spielberg said, “All men dream, but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds, wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act on their dreams with open eyes, to make them possible”. My daydream is that one day I will wake up and the daymares of Racism will be just a bad recurring dream that I have been having for fifty three years. The stark reality is that Dr. King’s dream is overshadowed by my daymares. Sometimes it appears that the struggles of the sixties and seventies didn’t resonate, that all the Protesting by Dr King, all the beatings, the water Cannons and the Dogs tearing through Protests was all for nothing. Social justice , Financial Equity, and equality is not just a dream. It’s a call to the Social consciousness of America. Why else was the Constitution written? We are not the Fool that you make us to be, there has to be a reckoning one day. The same Country that has sent Troops all over the world to defend Human Rights. While it’s own House in shambles, with its Citizens practicing Human Rights Violations Daily with Hate Crimes.The same Country that placed Sanctions on South Africa in the seventies for it’s Policies of Apartheid

REVIEWED BY Fatima Aladdin (reedsy.com/discovery)

Worth reading

Even after a life-long of unjust hatred, the author refuses to give in to it and continues to be loving of his fellow man.

Author Anthony Dixon has had to endure unjust hatred since the moment he stepped into America and for fifty-three years since. People treated him with racism, hatred, prejudice, and disdain – all for having a different color of skin.

Throughout his book, the author talks about how we are all the same regardless of our race, because we all belong to the human race, especially since it is believed by one of the greatest minds – Einstein – that there is not one pure race. He goes on to call out prejudiced people on their ignorance that keeps them from seeing the clear fact that we are all basically the same, and he calls out those who invade other countries and take over their riches then declare themselves superior for doing so. He exposes the American educational system, religion, and parents to be corrupted by bigotry and spreading it through the generations.

Luckily, the author is able to see the world through his mother’s eyes (hence the title) who taught him how to see all people as his equals – none better than him without that meaning that he was better than them. This lesson immunized the writer to the hatred that kept trying to claim him and taught him how to work hard to earn everyone’s respect. He also credits his mother with teaching him that passing better information and ideals to the next generation is the only way to truly live.

The style of writing appears to be too random; the author jumps from one place to the other without any kind of system being behind it – which he himself admits. This could prove confusing to many readers. The book could have benefited from more thorough editing and further exploration of certain parts.

The book is basically the journal of a man who has had enough of all the hatred he has received and decided to create art with it rather than let it consume him.

I recommend this book to all those interested in learning more about life through the eyes of others.