Helpful Conversations, Life

AI

I haven’t written a blog in maybe two years.
I’ve been busy publishing books on Amazon—on my own, learning the system, formatting covers, wrestling with pixels and margins, doing what independent authors do when they refuse to wait for permission.
But this one?
This one is worth the time.
It takes me back.
Back to a black-and-white memory of Spock speaking calmly to a computer with a smooth, almost seductive voice on Star Trek. Back to my high school teacher in 1972 warning us that if we didn’t become “computer friendly,” if we stayed computer illiterate, we wouldn’t even qualify to work at McDonald’s one day.
We laughed.
Computers?
Those room-sized machines with blinking lights?
That was science fiction. That was for NASA. That was for “other people.”
And yet here we are.
Full circle.
Somewhere along the way, a quote began circulating—often attributed to Albert Einstein—about technology creating a generation of idiots. There’s no solid proof he said those exact words. But he did warn us. He warned that technical advancement without human depth—without ethics, intuition, wisdom—could become dangerous.
He feared we would grow mechanically brilliant and spiritually shallow.
And now we stand at the doorstep of AI.
Not clunky machines.
Not blinking consoles.
But something that listens. Responds. Writes. Sings.
I have learned how to ask AI to do things with phenomenal results. I have taken my own blogs—my raw, lived, hard-earned words—and fed them into a machine. I’ve watched them come back as lyrics. As full songs. As finished productions. My thoughts—elevated, harmonized, engineered.
The machine didn’t just calculate.
It created.
Or did it?
Here’s the mind-jarring part:
If I can outsource melody, structure, editing, rhythm, expansion…
At what point am I no longer the creator?
At what point does convenience become dependency?
At what point does assistance become substitution?
We once feared calculators would make children unable to do math. Then spell check would ruin spelling. Then GPS would erase our sense of direction. Now AI drafts speeches, builds businesses, writes code, designs art, even comforts loneliness.
The question is no longer “Can it?”
The question is “Should we let it do everything?”
Because thinking is not just about producing answers.
Thinking is wrestling.
It is struggling.
It is sitting in silence with a blank page and refusing to look away.
When a machine fills the blank page instantly, what happens to the muscle of thought?
Does it atrophy?
Or does it evolve?
Perhaps the danger isn’t AI itself.
Perhaps the danger is laziness.
AI can expand your thoughts—but it cannot live your life.
It can remix your words—but it cannot feel your pain.
It can structure your argument—but it cannot suffer your consequences.
It does not bleed.
It does not fear death.
It does not stand at a graveside.
It does not wake up to a diagnosis.
It does not love.
It predicts.
So maybe the real dividing line isn’t intelligence.
Maybe it’s consciousness.
Maybe it’s accountability.
Maybe it’s soul.
Technology has always forced humanity to adapt. The printing press threatened memory. Radio threatened reading. Television threatened conversation. The internet threatened attention.
AI threatens authorship.
And yet here I am—using it.
Which means the issue isn’t whether AI exists. It’s whether we surrender to it.
Do we use it as a hammer?
Or do we become the nail?
Do we sharpen our thinking with it?
Or let it think instead of us?
This blog ends with a twist:
You’re reading words polished by AI.
But the question?
The tension?
The unease?
That came from a human being who remembers 1972… who remembers Spock… who remembers laughing at the idea that computers would matter.
Now they don’t just matter.
They answer.
So I leave you with this:
Has technology taken away our ability to think?
Or has it simply exposed who never wanted to think in the first place?


This Song was created by AI turning my Text to Lyrics and created this image for my book: There’s something out there
There's something out there by Anthony t

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Love is forever

Excerpts from my next Book:

Chapter 1: The Beginning of Forever
Introduction: The Gift of Forever Love

Love is one of life’s greatest mysteries—a force that transcends time, space, and human understanding. For those fortunate enough to discover true love and nurture it across decades, the experience becomes nothing short of a divine blessing. This book celebrates such enduring love, drawing on the profound journey of staying married and deeply in love for 45 years. It is not just a testament to romance but also to resilience, faith, and the art of choosing each other every single day.

A Prodigy of Love

When I was twelve years old, Millie professed her love for me in a way that even Romeo could not explain to Juliet. She was only eleven, and in her young, unwavering voice, she declared, “I will always love you for the rest of my life.
I will I never give my heart to anyone
else.” At twelve, what did I know about love? What did she? I often ask myself that question, but then I remember a passage from the Bible: A child shall
show them the way. Could it be that
love, like music or art, has its prodigies—those who understand its
depth before the rest of us do?
I didn’t think much of it at the time. My mind was occupied with baseball, riding my bike, and dreaming of one day being older. But Millie? She knew something I didn’t. Her words were the last thing she said to me when my family packed up and moved from the house we rented from her father. I still remember how she stood on the sidewalk, her arms crossed, biting her lip as if trying to hold back tears. She wasn’t the kind of girl who cried easily. She had a toughness about her that I admired. But that day, she looked fragile, like a dandelion whose petals were about to scatter in the wind. We drove away, and I didn’t look back. I should have. Maybe, in her own way, she truly meant what she said. Maybe it wasn’t just the fleeting emotions of a child. But what could I do? I was twelve, and life was carrying me forward whether I wanted it to or not.
As the years passed, I often wondered if Millie remembered that day. Did she hold on to those words? Or was it simply a moment in time, forgotten like so many childhood promises? The thing about first love is that it leaves an imprint, one you don’t fully recognize until much later in life.

Life

A Good Age To Die

You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?

As I reflect upon the tumultuous years of my wayward youth, I recognize the pivotal role that grace played in steering me away from the abyss. The times I should not have lived seven scores over were a testament to a providence that watched over me, guiding me through the shadows with an unseen hand. (Excerpts from my Autobiography)

Life

We are not in Kansas anymore

What bores you?

This Bores me because I saw it coming since January 6th. The rippling effects will be felt by State and local Agencies who rely on certain Federal programs. As the song goes “You ain’t seen nothing yet.


In a significant overhaul of the U.S. military’s top leadership, President Donald Trump has dismissed several high-ranking officials, signaling a decisive shift in the Pentagon’s direction.

Key Dismissals:

General Charles “CQ” Brown Jr.: Serving as the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff since October 2023, General Brown was notable for being only the second Black officer in this role. His tenure encompassed critical periods, including the Ukraine conflict and Middle East operations.

Admiral Lisa Franchetti: The Chief of Naval Operations and the first woman to hold this position, Admiral Franchetti’s departure marks a historic moment in the Navy’s leadership.

General James Slife: As the Vice Chief of Staff of the Air Force, General Slife played a pivotal role in shaping Air Force strategies and policies.


New Appointments:

President Trump has nominated retired Air Force Lieutenant General Dan “Razin” Caine as the new Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. General Caine, a veteran of the Iraq War and former associate director for military affairs at the CIA, is recognized for his loyalty to President Trump and his unconventional approach to military leadership.

Strategic Implications:

This leadership shake-up aligns with Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth’s initiative to remove what he terms “woke” influences from the military. Hegseth, a former Fox News commentator and Army National Guard veteran, has been vocal about eliminating diversity and equity programs within the armed forces.

The restructuring has elicited varied reactions. Democratic leaders express concern over the potential politicization of the military, while Republican figures emphasize the necessity for leadership that aligns with the administration’s vision. This move underscores President Trump’s commitment to reshaping the military’s hierarchy to reflect his policy priorities and strategic objectives.